Tuesday, October 22, 2019

Wedding Pictures!

Hello, all!
It's been a bit of an adjustment for me, trying to remember to post on the blog, as it's been so long since it's been a regular habit! ;) My apologies on that. 

Since we just celebrated our 1 year anniversary on October 12, I decided to do a post with some of our wedding pictures. (Thank you for the suggestion, Grace! :) If you aren't a fan of wedding photos, no offense taken if you simply pass by this post. ;) Especially since I had a very hard time picking my favorites, and probably posted more than necessary. Oops. Oh well, I had fun reminiscing while I did it!!

We had my cousin, Kailyn, do our wedding pictures for us. She is from California and has a photography and videography business that she runs jointly with her fiance, Eric. She was gracious enough to come up to Washington for our wedding, and I honestly could NOT have been more thrilled with our wedding photos!! I'll let the pictures speak for themselves in a minute, but WOW...Luke and I were blown away with what a lovely job she did!

I'll go in sections throughout the wedding day, so it's easy to see how things flowed. The first thing that happened was that the groomsmen got ready at our church building and had their pictures taken, and then my girls and I showed up to trade places with them and start getting ready ourselves. Before the guys left, however, Luke and I did something very special that I am SO glad we did! Kailyn took me out behind the building to a little alcove and had me wait there while she went and got Luke. Then, so as not to have him see me, we held hands around the corner and prayed together. It was about 3 hours before our wedding, and this was our first time ever holding hands, so it was a really special moment!

Some handsome groom and groomsmen photos...





And some photos from our prayer together, as well as a moment of incredibly overwhelming joy for me...after Luke walked around the corner, I ran to catch a glimpse of him before he got in the car to go to the park where our wedding was going to be. It suddenly hit me as I looked after him that this was it. This was the day that the long wait was over, and I was marrying my best friend. :')







My heart is pounding fast again just looking at these pictures. ;) Here are some from the getting ready process with my sweet bridesmaids--all powered by Starbucks, of course. ;P












I was so blessed to have some of my dearest friends by my side to celebrate this happy day! :) Here are some from our bride/bridesmaid shoot after we were all ready for the wedding. The area around our church building really provided some pretty cool backdrops!! :D









I was thrilled to find the dark orange door, since our wedding colors were a kind of dark rusty orange and dark teal. (Though in some of the photos they look black, the bridesmaids' dressed are actually teal).

Here are a few pics of the decorations at our outdoor ceremony...I was SO thankful for absolutely beautiful weather on our wedding day!! God was so good to give us that, since we really didn't have a Plan B if it had been rainy or bad weather. 





We actually just reserved a portion of a public park (for FREE, no less!) and it worked out perfectly!! There was a nice section that was more or less closed off with trees, and any passersby were very respectful and didn't disturb us at all. It was really nice, because a lot of the "real" venues we'd been looking at were wanting to charge us up to 2 grand....as it was, we ended up spending less than that on the ENTIRE wedding total, simply by being careful, using what we had or borrowing from friends, making nearly all our own food, and letting God's creation cover most of the decorations for us. ;) I was so happy we decided to go with an outdoor ceremony, because it really fit the "feel" that I was hoping for perfectly. :) 

Up next are some photos from the actual ceremony. We had my little brother Kebron as our ring bearer, and a little friend, Ruth, as our flower girl (though every time I call her that, she insists that "They were NOT flowers, they were LEAVES!!" ;P We had her toss real leaves of different fall colors instead of petals). Luke and I sang together, and opted for the threefold cord for our unity ceremony. 








We took a very non traditional approach to our first kiss, (which to this day I am SO glad we did!!!!!!). After the preacher pronounced us husband and wife, and introduced us as the new couple, Luke picked me up and carried me off down the aisle! :D We went across a small stream to a secluded area by the riverbank, and shared our first kiss in private with just the two of us. (We didn't even have our photographer there for this, we just wanted to have our first few moments as a married couple to ourselves. :) While this may not be for everyone, I personally didn't really like the idea of sharing that special first kiss in front of 150 people...even people I knew and loved! It just made it that much more memorable to have it be just the two of us. Besides, it's not like they missed anything--we kissed plenty more times at the reception! ;P





Our reception was tons of fun, and we shared so many sweet memories with our friends and loved ones who were able to join us. One of my favorite moments was the bouquet toss...and I LOVE the pictures Kailyn got of that!! :D















The goodbyes at the end of the reception were kind of a blur for me, honestly...it was very surreal to be actually taking leave of my family there at our wedding! (Our honeymoon was on our way back to Missouri where my new home would be). 




Ok, this post is getting way too long, but I have to add a few of my favorite pictures from our sunset couple photos in Leavenworth, WA. Leavenworth has some very dear memories for us from all throughout our relationship, so it was super special to be able to take our couple pictures there!! The scenery is so stunning, and by this time the lighting was absolutely perfect. This photo session was actually one of my very favorite memories from our wedding day. Kailyn did such a great job making us feel comfortable and letting the photos be real













That last picture series with the lamppost is SO special to me. :') My best friend Kimberly and I had taken pictures by that lamp back in 2016 when she came to visit me in person for the first time. Then when Luke and I were courting, we took a photo by the same lamppost...and then on our wedding day, we got those sweet shots. And my heart melts every time. ;) 

I know this was rather a lot of pictures, and I apologize...like I said, I will not be offended in the least if you happen to have just skimmed through, or just skipped this post altogether! I know a couple of my followers are planning weddings of their own in the semi-near future, so if there are any questions about anything, just let me know in the comments! :)  I found it super helpful when I was wedding planning to talk to gals that had recently been through the joys of doing it themselves, and get their tips and ideas. 

I hope anyone that's still with me at this point is having a great week, and that it will just keep getting better from here! :) Happy Fall!
Love,
Mykaela

Tuesday, September 10, 2019

An Introduction to my New Life

Hello, all!
Ah, where to begin?? This post may be rather long and rambling, we'll see...it's quite hard to condense some of the biggest life changes I've ever experienced into a coherent and put together blog post. ;)

I suppose the first order of business is to announce what some of you may not be aware of yet...and that is that Luke and I are expecting our first little one in April of 2020! We are beyond blessed and excited for this gift God has given us.
Our one year anniversary is coming up super fast...it is hard to believe we've been married for nearly a year! In some ways, it feels like much shorter than that, but in many ways, it seems like we've always been married. It's hard to remember what life was like before I knew my sweetheart. :) While I won't go on too long about this (so as not to tire my readers who don't enjoy sappiness ;), marriage has truly been such an incredible, overwhelmingly beautiful journey thus far. I thank The Lord every day for giving me a husband who is so loving, kind, and good to me. He treats me like a queen, and I could not be more grateful for the blessing that he is to me. We have SO much fun together, it's rather ridiculous. ;D 

A few of our summer adventures have included various travels. In April, we went up to Washington to visit my family. We were able to take a vacation with them down to Sunriver, Oregon, where we used to take trips during my childhood--very nostalgic place for us! My grandparents on my mom's side actually joined us there for a couple days, which was so awesome. :) Luke and I have been to Branson, MO twice this summer, and just a few weeks ago, we drove with Luke's sister and her husband out to Pennsylvania to visit my other brother and sister-in-law! That was super fun, as I've never been farther east than Kentucky or so. It was great seeing a new area of the country, and getting my feet wet in the Atlantic, since I've seen the Pacific from many angles! :) Here are a few random pictures from these trips...












As you can probably tell, we had a very good time. ;) I know I don't usually include so many pictures in a typical post, but I suppose this isn't really a typical post, either. If you're bored, you're free to leave. ;P

I had one sweet comment asking me to describe a typical day in my new life as a stay at home wife (soon to be mama!) and homemaker. A quick rundown of a typical week for me would look similar to this...
Monday: I usually go in to work with my husband on Mondays. He works in Moberly, which is about 35 minutes away, so one or two days a week I'll ride in with him and spend the day there, so as to be able to share his lunch break with him. I also usually get all my grocery shopping for the week done on this day. Since he works right across the road from where his parents and younger sister live, I hang out with them quite a bit on Mondays as well...I have truly wonderful in-laws who have accepted me as part of the family so quickly! Monday evenings I help Luke study for Bible Institute (his training for being in full time ministry someday soon), which is on Tuesday nights.

Tuesday-Thursday: On these days I typically get up with Luke to pack his lunch for him and see him out the door, at around 6:15 a.m. After he leaves, I usually sleep for a while longer. ;) On my days at home, I'll do housework or online work with Amazon, or teach violin, as well as have dinner ready for when he comes home. (Bestest part of the day! :D) I will say, it's pretty crazy how fast dishes and laundry pile up, even with just two people in the house! Not that I'm complaining, though, it's not a burden for me to take care of these things while he's off working hard to provide for me! :) In the evenings he has institute on Tuesdays, we go to church on Wednesdays, and during the summer there is door knocking on Thursdays, so our evenings are usually pretty full.

Friday: I usually either go to work with Luke again on Fridays, or I'll stay home and get the lawn mowed or other random house tasks finished up before the weekend. On Friday nights, Luke and I like to stay up late talking or watching a movie or playing games together...whatever sounds good at the time. :) Especially if we have a quiet Saturday, it's fun to spend time together without worrying about how tired he will be at work the next day. :P

Saturday: These vary quite a bit. Lots of times we try to do something fun, like biking, walking, or exploring some of the many trails around Columbia. Sometimes there are other things happening, like helping a church member out, or going over to friends' places...it all depends. I LOVE it when we have free Saturdays and we can just hang out together! :D

Sunday: Church! :) My new church family here has been SO sweet and made it so easy for me to join in!

Well, maybe that was more information than necessary, but that's a pretty typical week for us. In one other pretty big piece of news, my dad just accepted a new pastorate...in Wildwood, Missouri, where we used to live when I was a little girl!! As a result, my family is going to be moving to Missouri at some point in early November, and living less than two hours away from us!! I am beyond excited about this development, especially with my pregnancy...it will be nice to have my mom and sister nearby to help out when the time gets closer for the baby to come. God's ways are higher than ours!

Speaking of the pregnancy, so far it hasn't been too bad! I am 9 weeks along today, and the morning sickness has definitely been present, but certainly not unbearable. It's mainly been manifesting itself in some nausea throughout the day, and food just sounding gross in general. Only very specific things sound appetizing at all. Garbanzo beans, cereal, meat loaf, and smoothies have been high on the list. ;P A week from today, Luke and I get to hear our little one's heartbeat for the first time! We are planning to find out the gender, so I will let you know what that is when the time comes...still have a little while to wait for that yet. :) We already love this tiny baby so much, and can't wait to meet him or her.

Well, long and rambling indeed, but there is a sort of brief outline of my new life as a married woman. ;) I am so blessed!! If you've made it this far, thank you so much for sharing in all this news! :) Have a blessed week!
Mykaela

Wednesday, September 4, 2019

I Have Returned!


Hey, everyone!
It's been over a year since I have last posted on this blog...and what a year it has been! God has been good in so many ways, I can't even begin to list them all. I'm planning on doing a post outlining our first year of marriage, what's been going on in life, etc., but I wanted to publish a preliminary post first to see what YOU want to hear! Q&A is officially open! ;) If you have any particulars you'd like to know, just leave a note in the comments of this post, or email me at makingmusic4themaster@gmail.com.

I'm really looking forward to starting to post again every now and then...I've struggled with whether or not to begin again or just leave the blog as is. The Lord has been laying it on my heart over and over throughout the last few months, so at least for now, I'm going to start it back up again! :) The content will probably be a little different, as my stage of life has completely changed since I was last blogging, but I suppose that's all part of growing! Also, forgive me if I'm a little rusty, it's been a while. ;)

I hope to hear from you soon!
Mykaela

Thursday, August 2, 2018

A Love Story Long Awaited

Hello, all!
The story I'm about to tell has been much requested, and there are many of you I've never given the detailed version to, so brace yourselves. ;) In my last post, I mentioned a special young man that had entered my life. His name is Luke, and this is the story of how we met. :)



In order to tell that, I have to back up around 4 years, to 2013. That year, my parents took a trip out to Missouri for a conference. While there, my mom met a young lady named Bethany, and they totally hit it off. My mom has 8 kids, and doesn't normally keep in close touch with people, because life is just crazy...but for some reason, (which I can now see was God's hand :), she and Beth kept in contact pretty regularly over the next 3 years. I always enjoyed hearing about her family and how things were going, but never really talked with Bethany myself. 

In our hectic and long drawn out shuffle of moving from Omak to Wenatchee, they lost touch for over a year. Fast forward to August of last year (2017). One evening, my mom was on the Bible app, and it "randomly" popped up with a name--Bethany is on this app, would you like to connect with her? My mom promptly emailed her and did some catching up. 

She remembered that Bethany had a brother, and asked right out if he was still single. ;P Subtle, mom. Thanks. ;D Anyway, Bethany informed her that he was, and of all things, my DAD totally jumped on the wagon and started immediately trying to initiate us getting to know each other better! Both Luke and I were completely uninterested at this point. We had both only recently come to the point of being completely and fully surrendered to being single, for the rest of our lives if that's what God's will was! And now, all of a sudden, we were supposed to start getting to know this perfect stranger?! Literally all I knew about Luke at this stage of the game was his name. That's IT. But, we both agreed to pray about it for two weeks. At the end of that time, it didn't seem like there was a neon YES in the sky, but there also weren't any red flags. Reluctantly, we started emailing.

We did a few "hello, my name is" type emails, but after that it felt so awkward, at least for me. I didn't know where to go from there. Luke's dad suggested that we could write actual paper letters, which I was very much in favor of. For some reason, it's a lot easier for me to express myself with a pen and paper than in an email. 

After about 3 letters, my interest level had spiked by approximately 100%. ;P I wanted him to visit. Very much so. ;) I'll never forget getting the email from my dad while I was at work that Luke was actually going to come!! On December 29, 2017, my dad went and picked him up from the airport, and we met for the first time at my workplace. Over the next few days, I pretty much lost my heart to him. ;) I didn't mean for it to happen, but it just did! I felt completely at home and comfortable around him almost immediately, which is not a typical thing, even for mostly extroverted me. We had the time of our lives.

Luke and my dad left on the same day...Luke to go back home, and my dad to fly down to Jamaica for a week to teach some classes. That was honestly one of the longest weeks of my life. ;) A few days after my dad got home though, Luke made it official, and our relationship really began! :)

We talked via Marco Polo pretty exclusively at first. After a while, we started using FaceTime as well, and although they aren't NEARLY as nice as talking in person, I am incredibly grateful for technology like this that allowed us to get to know each other!

I realize I'm rambling here...I'll speed things up. In April, my entire family took a three week trip, driving down to MO for the missions conference at Luke's church. Yet again, I had an absolutely amazing time, and was more sure than ever that I really, REALLY liked this guy. ;) 

A month later, at the beginning of May, Luke flew out for 4 days and surprised me. It was the most awesome surprise ever...wow. I couldn't believe he'd pulled it off!! Obviously, lots of help was involved from family on both sides in order to keep it a secret. ;) Saying goodbye at the airport at the end of that visit was one of the hardest things I have ever done. 

And then, I booked a ticket to fly out there on July 4, only a month ago. I got in on a Wednesday afternoon, and on Friday, Luke and I went to a place called Hahatonka State Park with his mom and one of his sisters. All day, we wandered around the beautiful trails and hills, just enjoying the day (though it was pretty hot ;P).




Eventually, we made our way down to a beautiful spot down by the water. I took my shoes off and waded a bit, and when I came back up on the bank, Luke suggested we take a picture. We stood together and his mom started videoing, unbeknownst to me. ;) Before I knew it, Luke was down on one knee, asking me if I would be his wife. I was SO utterly overwhelmed and overjoyed!!! When I got my breath back, I said YES! (I actually said it 5 or 6 times, I think. ;) He put the most lovely ring I'd ever seen on my finger, and I haven't really left Cloud 9 since. 






For the first time in my life, I was quite literally speechless. For about 45 minutes, all I could do was grin from ear to ear, with absolutely nothing coherent to say. ;P A while later, as we sat together at the place where he'd proposed, he turned to me and said, "Well? Are we going to jump in?" Ha. Are we going to jump in, indeed. You all know me, adventure calls, I answer. ;D We went up the trail a little ways to an outcropping that hung over some of the bluest (and I soon found out, some of the coldest) water I'd ever seen. On the count of three, we jumped, and it turned out it was deeper than either of us expected...and WOW it was so cold! :D It was the most awesome spontaneous memory, though, I am SO glad we did it. It just made the day that much more spectacular. :) 



The next few days were some of the happiest in my life. I don't know why, but I didn't realize how much our relationship would shift after we were officially engaged. I always kind of assumed it would be pretty much the same as it was before (which was awesome). Not so. For one thing, we had waited until after we were engaged to exchange those incredibly amazing words, "I love you". I had thought those words about a billion times. ;) Being able to finally say them freely was the most wonderful thing EVER. :D I think I've said them approximately innumerable times since. ;) 



The wedding is set for October 12, just over 90 days from when he first asked me! :) We have a wedding website that you can find at this link. We were able to meet up with my sweet friend Kimberly before I left Missouri, and she took some lovely engagement pictures for us. :)






I can't even begin to express how grateful I am that God has blessed me with this relationship. Luke is so much more amazing than I ever could have imagined. Without getting too mushy, (haha! ;) I will say that he has loved me infinitely more than I ever thought anyone but The Lord could or would love me! He is incredibly strong, loyal, encouraging, hilarious, and downright crazy handsome. ;) Over this relationship, he has become my best friend, and I cannot wait to spend the rest of my life with him! <3 

May I offer the encouragement that the right man is so completely worth waiting for. If you are wondering why God is taking so long to bring someone into your life, please take heart...it seems long (believe me, I know!), but it is SO worthwhile! :) Keep up the good work in the meantime, you won't regret it!

Without further ado, I am giving the "floor" to Luke, who will close out this rather lengthy post. ;) Thanks for sticking it through! :D

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Well, this seems like a bad start to happily ever after - we aren't even married yet and she's already telling me, "You're on the floor."  ;P  But to the topic at hand: I'm no author, but I'll attempt to give the flip-side of the story Mykaela just told by giving a glimpse of things from my perspective.  I'll start from the point where Mrs. McDowell reestablished communication with my sister.  The first time I can remember ever hearing anything about Mykaela went something like this...

Beth (my sister): "Hey Luke, do you remember Mrs. McDowell, the missionary wife I used to email?"

Me: "Yeah, I think so..."

Beth: "Well, we started talking again on the Bible app, and she just asked me if you were still single."

Me: (cringes) "Oh. Great."

Yup.  That's about how it went.  But before you judge me too harshly, let me give some context to the situation.  1)  I was 24 at the time,  2) I was not married,  3) I had a number of friends who had been... shall we say, "zealously concerned" about eliminating point number 2 for a few years by then.  You get the idea.  In short, I was NOT particularly excited about what this development might imply.  Like MK said, I had fairly recently reached the point in my walk with God where I was perfectly happy to stay single for the rest of my life if He so desired (yes, it took me awhile to get there, unfortunately), and I didn't want to lose the simple peace that I had by getting caught up in the possibility of a relationship.  Honestly, I just wanted to ignore the entire thing.  The next day, her dad called.

Over the next few weeks, I prayed quite a lot, did a fair amount of internet stalking (how else was I supposed to find anything out about a girl who lived 2,000 miles away?), and Mykaela and I exchanged several emails and letters.  Eventually, though I was still hesitant to begin a relationship, I came to the belief that God was telling me that I needed to go up to WA for a visit.  So off I went, hesitant, but cautiously hopeful as well.

It didn't take long for me to realize just how awesome this girl was.  By the end of the visit, I was smitten.  After a couple of weeks spent in prayer, I was confident that a relationship was part of God's will.  I'll never forget making the call to Bro. McDowell to officially start things off!  I was grinning ear to ear!

In interest of keeping this as short as I can, I'll skip ahead to July 6th.  I WAS SO NERVOUS!!!  I mean, I was pretty sure she would say, "Yes," but there was still a little voice in my head saying, "What if she doesn't?"  But she did! :D  Best.  Day.  Ever!  (Shortly to be superseded by October 12th)  ;)  There are no words to describe a blessing like Mykaela.  I do NOT deserve the attention, much less love, of this amazing girl!  (No, MK, you can't delete that because it is true - you said I could write whatever I wanted).  God has been so good!  And let me reiterate what Mykaela said earlier: wait on God.  It will be worth it - far more than you can possibly imagine!

Thursday, June 14, 2018

Praiseworthy


Hi Everyone!
Today is a day off work for me, and I decided what better time to write a post for my blog readers that have probably kind of forgotten about my existence? :D Today's post is based on my notes from a few weeks ago...I have recently been filling in teaching Children's Bible Study (Sunday School) at my church. We have about 10 kids on average, all children of the church members, so the majority of the older ones are saved and can listen on a functional level. The little ones, not quite so much. ;) Having a mixed age class has been a bit of a challenge, but it's really fun to try to teach deeper concepts for the older ones, but using language that the littles can understand. :) 

I am teaching the class along with another lady, and we've been going through Phillipians 4:8 and the things we should be focusing and dwelling on throughout the day. Each 'whatsoever'...true, honest, just, pure, etc. has been our "word of the week" and the central point of that week's lesson.

It was my turn to teach, and I got the word focus "Praiseworthy". (...and if there be any praise, think on these things.) By definition, it means deserving of approval or admiration, exemplary, or commendable. As I studied this word, one person in the Bible stuck out to me the most as being a praiseworthy person, and that was Joseph. He lived up to this character trait in so many ways! Here are a few thoughts I had in relation to Joseph's life.

1. He had an Obedient Spirit.
Genesis 37:13, "And Israel said unto Joseph, Do not thy brethren feed the flock in Shechem? come, and I will send thee unto them. And he said to him, Here am I."

Joseph was faithful to obey his father without murmuring or dispute. Even though he and his older brothers had a pretty poor relationship, and they made no secret of their disdain for him, he didn't drag his feet and balk against his father's request. He may not have felt like doing the task, but he did it with a willing spirit, as indicated by his response of "Here am I."

2. He had a faithful Servant's Heart.
Genesis 39:1-6 "And Joseph was brought down to Egypt; and Potiphar, an officer of Pharaoh, captain of the guard, an Egyptian, bought him of the hands of the Ishmeelites, which had brought him down thither. And the LORD was with Joseph, and he was a prosperous man; and he was in the house of his master the Egyptian. And his master saw that the LORD was with him, and that the LORD made all that he did to prosper in his hand. And Joseph found grace in his sight, and he served him: and he made him overseer over his house, and all that he had he put into his hand. And it came to pass from the time that he had made him overseer in his house, and over all that he had, that the LORD blessed the Egyptian's house for Joseph's sake; and the blessing of the LORD was upon all that he had in the house, and in the field. And he left all that he had in Joseph's hand; and he knew not ought he had, save the bread which he did eat. And Joseph was a goodly person, and well favoured."

Joseph was sold into bondage by his own brothers. These were his immediate family! Of all the people in his life, he should have been able to trust them, but no...they sold him. How much hurt must he have had to overcome in God's strength! It is clear, however, that Joseph did not become bitter and hardened by this massive trial in his life. He didn't have a "poor me, my brothers are such jerks, my life is horrible" attitude. Instead, he served humbly and faithfully in the house of the man he was sold to. This reminds me of the little girl in the story of Naaman. Instead of doing as little as possible and rebelling under these hard circumstances, Joseph and the little girl both served their masters to the best of their abilities. This passage says that God specifically had His hand of blessing on Joseph. God does not specially bless people who are not walking in His will. Obviously, Joseph must have been walking with The Lord with all his heart and striving to please Him. Because of this, God even blessed Joseph's unsaved master! How interesting to note that when our lives are aligned with God's Word and we are walking by His side, He can not only bless us greatly, but those around us as well! Sometimes, our testimony can even be used of God to bring others to salvation. It is both exciting and sobering to come to the realization of how much our actions and spiritual walk can affect the people we are in contact with.

3. He resisted temptation and sin with all his might.
Genesis 39:9-10 "There is none greater in this house than I; neither hath he kept back any thing from me but thee, because thou art his wife: how then can I do this great wickedness, and sin against God? And it came to pass, as she spake to Joseph day by day, that he hearkened not unto her, to lie by her, or to be with her."

Joseph was 100% determined and purposed that his life would stay pure and holy in the sight of God. Even when temptation quite literally came knocking at his door, day after day after day, he refused to be worn down by it. He didn't weaken and begin to compromise as some would have easily been tempted to do, but instead grew even firmer in his refusal to sin. Even to the point of physically removing himself from the situation with all haste, he was willing to go to great lengths to protect his heart, soul, and body from evil. How vehement are we in fighting against the daily temptations we face? Personally, I know there are areas in my life that I have weakened on over time, simply due to the continual nature of the temptation. It is so easy to become complacent or uncaring about certain sins because I see them so. much. And yet, that's when it becomes even more important to fight against them! How will others be affected by my testimony if I become complacent about wrong? 

4. He truly cared for others above himself.
Genesis 40:6-7 "And Joseph came in unto them in the morning, and looked upon them, and, behold, they were sad. And he asked Pharaoh's officers that were with him in the ward of his lord's house, saying, Wherefore look ye so sadly to day?"

We know the story; Joseph was falsely accused by the evil woman who had tried and failed to seduce him, and was now rotting in prison for an indefinite amount of time. At this point, I think most of us would have thrown in the towel, so to speak! What possible purpose could God have in the seemingly endless string of injustices he was having to endure? And yet, even now, in the darkest time of all, Joseph's attitude and integrity were such that he was placed in a position of authority within the prison. God had not forgotten him, but was setting the stage for great and mighty things. We can see that now, reading these passages from Genesis, but Joseph was in the middle of it. He didn't know the end result, or what God was doing, and yet he still remained submitted to whatever God's will was. 

He performed his duties in the prison well, and we can see from this passage that he truly cared about those under his jurisdiction. He could have done the bare minimum, delivering food to the prisoners and whatever else he was called on to do, speaking as little as possible. Instead, he chose to engage and show compassion on these men when he saw that they were distressed about something. He empathized with them, and sought out whether or not he could help in any way. This is such an amazing display of a Christlike attitude! This is part of the reason I love this story so much...Joseph's life is such a strong example to me! How often do I rush through my duties and the demands of life without taking the time or effort involved to truly care about others? I can see them, but do I actually see them? Do I look at them through Christ's eyes, searching out the hurt and showing compassion? 

5. He was humble and gave glory to God for his gifts.
Genesis 41:15-16 "And Pharaoh said unto Joseph, I have dreamed a dream, and there is none that can interpret it: and I have heard say of thee, that thou canst understand a dream to interpret it. And Joseph answered Pharaoh, saying, It is not in me: God shall give Pharaoh an answer of peace."

By this time, two years later, the butler had finally remembered him, and Joseph had been brought before Pharaoh to interpret a dream. This is a fairly impressive gift to have...obviously there was no one else in the kingdom able to do the task. Joseph could have become self focused and puffed up with pride over this God-given ability, but instead, he deflected the glory and honor back to The One who had bestowed it. His heart was humble and focused on the right thing--The Lord and his walk with Him.

6. He held no bitterness, and forgave freely.
Genesis 50:19-20 And Joseph said unto them, Fear not: for am I in the place of God? But as for you, ye thought evil against me; but God meant it unto good, to bring to pass, as it is this day, to save much people alive.

Even after all the evil they had done to him, Joseph didn't hold a grudge against his brothers. He didn't seek revenge, though as the second most powerful man in the world at that time, he could have done so with a snap of his fingers. His kindness and grace to them was evident to all involved. He fully lived up to the verse that commands us to love our enemies! His view of all that had occurred was not skewed by his personal feelings or emotions...he acknowledged the fact that every circumstance in his life was orchestrated by the mighty hand of God, for a very special purpose. 

In all of these areas and more, Joseph's actions, words, and attitudes were praiseworthy and righteous. How praiseworthy are my day to day actions and interactions? Referring back to Phillipians 4:8, God's Word tells us that we should be dwelling on the things that are praiseworthy. There's another thought. Do I look for the good in what others are doing and focus on that? Or am I picking apart their lives, thinking and speaking about the bad, not seeing the beam in my own eye, so to speak? May I grow daily more and more like Christ in my own life, and look for the praiseworthy in the lives of others!
Mykaela